the internal grandmother


by sara wickham

"Amongst the Indian tribes of North America there's a belief  that the soul lives in the birth organs; when the cord and  the afterbirth have dried up and dropped away they're tenderly  gathered up by the mother and arranged in a sacred fabric that  she have woven during the pregnancy. This bundle is then buried  secretly, and retrieved whenever the tribe moves. This bundle is  presented to the grown person when they appear to have children  who will survive into adulthood. The mother lays the bundle  into the arms of the person with this statement. Today you are  a man, or woman, and I return this to you, for you to look after.  I have protected you soul all of your life; now it's up to you."

Source: http://www.cosmiccommunity.com/fayeclipson/review.html

It is only in the last few generations of humankind that the placenta has been so  carelessly discarded, disregarded, sold on to cosmetic  companies or happily left behind, an unpleasant reminder for some of what is perceived as the 'messiness' of birth.

For our great-grandmothers, the placenta would have  held a different meaning.  Some cultures, as above,  regard the placenta as a sacred organ and use this  to celebrate spiritual rituals associated with birth  and the baby's life.  Ancient midwives may have used  the hormonal and nutritional strength of the placenta  to strengthen the mother after a difficult birth,  or to prevent post-partum bleeding or depression.  

As in many other birth practices, we are beginning  to see a reclamation of ancient traditions and  attitudes in the way women and midwives are viewing  the placenta, and in the way this organ is being  brought into the rite of passage that is birth.  Whether women are choosing to bury, eat or retain their placenta, or in some cases to leave this  attached to their babies until it falls off naturally, there is a noticeable increase in the way we are  becoming more conscious of this incredible organ.  

The placenta has been variously described as  "the internal grandmother", "the baby's cake"  and "the baby's home".  It is interesting that many of  the different cultures who have ways of celebrating the  placenta justify this in relation to their spiritual beliefs.  In Thailand, the placenta is buried, a ritual which  holds deep spiritual meaning for parents.  read more.   A couple of years ago, I met a Hungarian obstetrician  who explained that some of the people she worked  with believed that cutting the baby's cord less  than six or seven inches from the body was an insult  to the baby's aura.  She explained that the cord  should not be cut less than this distance because  the baby's aura might be harmed by doing so.

In other cultures, lotus birth is practiced.   In this ritual, the umbilical cord is left uncut and the  baby and placenta remain as one for several days,  until the entire cord and placenta naturally separate  from the baby, a few days after birth.  Many believe that this allows a more gentle transition for the baby,  and enables the child to have an element of choice in  when s/he leaves her 'tree of life' and becomes  truly independent in the world.  

So is lotus birth natural?  Would our ancestors  really have practised this?  One group of midwives  I know have historically chosen to cut the cord  relatively soon after birth, on the basis that this is what  some primates are seen to do.  Would our grandmothers really  have left the placenta attached in this way?  Is this  an ancient ritual, or a relatively new one?

Unfortunately, we cannot say for sure.  But, as Michel  Odent points out in his introduction to "Lotus Birth",  we need to re-learn what birth can be like  when it is not disturbed, using non-interventive  reference points such as lotus birth in order to do so.

  Often, the midwife will assist the mother in 'preparing'  the placenta after the baby and placenta are born.   Although there are a number of ways of doing this,  the method with which I am familiar involves spreading out a  clean towel or nappy, filling this with a mixture of  salt and dried herbs (specific herbs may be  chosen for their spiritual or medicinal associations)  and placing the placenta on top of this.   More salt and herbs are gently packed on top  of the placenta, and the towel is then carefully  secured, so that it can be carried around and / or  placed next to the resting baby.  

One of the most interesting features of lotus birth  for me is the marked difference which having the  placenta attached makes to the degree to which the  baby can be passed around to relatives and friends.   Although women who choose rituals such as lotus birth  may also be more likely to practice some degree of  postnatal seclusion (or 'babymooning'), there may  be an advantage here for the women who are not  secluded, yet still end up spending more time  with their baby because of the increased difficulty  involved in passing a baby around who is still attached  to her placenta.  Some of the sites below which discuss  lotus birth also comment on how sensitive the  baby seems to be to having the placenta touched,  a fact which both supports the argument that  the placenta may remain an important organ for the  baby after birth and also feeds in to the baby  needing to be kept relatively still and undisturbed  in those early days following birth.  

 

There are a number of other web sites which  offer more information on lotus birth:

Lotus Birth - a ritual for our times (Sarah Buckley)

A copy of an article by Robin Lim

Mango Mama's Natural Parenting

A lotus birth story

Donna Yamaya - a personal perspective 

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